Background Information:
The Gurans
Bal Uddhyan Children's Home was formally registered in 2002 and has
been running with the help of individual friends and the founder, Nabin
Karki. Why was the home started? Nearly 8 years ago, Nabin was working
as tour guide in Kathmandu and lead many groups. During this period,
he saw many helpless and needy children living in the street, abandoned,
without parents. Can you imagine this? Young children left to sleep
in the streets, with nothing: no bed, no food, nobody to care for them?
Even through the cold winter nights? As a Nepali citizen, this situation
broke his heart and moved him to want to do something to help care for
these children, giving them shelter, food, and education. So he opened
a home for such children in a small, quiet village just 15 km outside
Kathmandu.
A Brief
Update:
At the
moment we have 10 children in the home, but our aim is to be able to
provide for 14 children in the future. The home is running smoothly
and the children are settled in, happy, healthy and doing well in school,
enjoying their time there.
Our children are
doing very well in school. Among them a few are 2nd and 3rd in their
classes. They even won prizes, which encouraged and inspired us all
very deeply. It is evident that the children's dedication as well as
the help of our staff in teaching and tutoring the children in the home
brought good results. We are looking forward to continued success in
school and hopeful for a bright future for each of them.
In the beginning
we had three children from the street, but after fifteen days, they
ran away. According to their friends we heard that they used to smoke
before and guess that they returned to the streets where they could
continue in these habits. We had tried our best to care for them, buying
their school dress, books, socks, shoes, bags and we admitted them in
school, but even after just a few days in school they left without any
information. We waited for a few weeks and also tried to find them on
the streets where we had found them before, but we could not. It was
their own choice.
After this case,
we have understood that it is difficult to take care for and try to
change the ways of children that have chosen the lifestyle of the street.
Therefore, we do not trust them nor want to be responsible for them
and are concerned for the effect they may have on the other children
in the home. However, if we see a very young child who is poor, sleeping
in the streets, we may feel led to help them.
Entertainment
and Activities:
At the
home we like to play all sorts of games such as carom board, chess,
ludo, football and badminton. They are quite active and have a nice
environment for playing.

Once a month, we
go trekking for 5-6 hours in the mountains near the home and have a
small picnic for lunch. Every week we do other day trips, like going
to the park, zoo, historical places or walking in the village area.
Earlier in the year we took the children to Manakamana Temple cable
car. It was very nice and the children had a great time.
Our Goals for the Children's Home:
Since
the beginning, we have been living in a rental house and sometimes we
have faced some difficulties with our landlords. Before moving to Thankot,
we had been renting a house near Swayambhu Temple, in Kathmandu, but
there were many problems such as water shortage; extremely dirty, unkempt
yard and paths; and a lack of good gounds for the children to play freely.
Besides these, the main problem was the owner's uncivilized behavior
with the children. Since moving to Thankot, we have not had these types
of problems but we do know that it would be much better financially
and emotionally for the children to have our own place. Therefore, we
are searching for a suitable small plot of land or house where we can
have our own home, grow some vegetables and have a nice clean yard for
the children to play.
Our Current
Needs:
Our main
concern is for the children's health and nutritious food. If either
of these is neglected, it is not possible for the children to progress
in school and their personal life. The health of the children is also
the most unpredictable factor and often the most costly, financially
for us.
Children's
Background and History:
We take in four kinds
of children: (1.) those with no father and no mother, (2.) those who
have a single parent (for example, if the mother of the child has died
and the father has remarried, often the children by the first marriage
are not welcome in the new family and are consequently considered as
orphans), (3.) young children sleeping on the street, (4.) those who
come from a very poor background where the family is unable to provide
food or cope with health problems and who cannot send their child to
school